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| My Mom Kathy! |
What all the countries have in common is the celebration of Mother’s and I am so glad for mine. This year, my mom will have celebrated Mother’s Day fifty times, as my mom. Her first one was spent away from her mom, as she was the wife of a sailor.
I call her, the married “single parent”. My dad would be aboard ship for months at a time, so she had to raise me on her own when he was at sea. This was definitely not an easy task when her family was far away.
It is a wonderful gift that we women are given when we become mother’s ourselves. For some women, it is baptism by fire, becoming a step-mom, or for a grandmother to become a mom again raising their grandchild(ren). I remember my mom visiting with me shortly after my son was born and sharing an “arrowroot cookie” tradition – Arrowroot cookies, tea and some wonderful conversations.
Becoming a mom myself took my relationship with my mom to another level we had never experienced before. I understood on deeper level all that my mom had done for me and those that she didn’t do so that I could learn from my own mistakes.
That is the true testament of a loving parent, knowing that as much as she wanted to stop me from erring, I needed to grow up and learn how to pick myself up. But no matter what, I knew that my mom was never far away and she would always be there to help when I asked for it. These are the lessons that I learned from my mom and are they are priceless gifts.
I remember when my son turned 18 and I was talking with my mom joking around with her saying “I feel so old my son is 18” and she said “what are you complaining about; I have a daughter who is 40”.
So on Mother’s Day, spend time with your mom, call your mom if you can’t and share your favorite memory of her. Do you know a mom, who is on her own for Mother’s Day, invite her to join your family time. Do you know a family who is without their mom for Mother’s Day, invite them to join in your family time
So Mom, Happy Mother’s Day and thank you for being my best friend!





